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    Home » Recipes » Gluten Free Dairy Free Desserts

    Dairy-Free Gluten-Free Birthday Cake

    Modified: Jul 24, 2025 · by Shelby Stover · This post may contain affiliate links · 18 Comments

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    Pin image with text: two images of gluten-free birthday cake the top of a double layered slice with a fork being pressed in and the bottom of the cake with purple icing and sprinkles with a slide cut out
    Pin image with text: One slice of birthday cake with purple icing and sprinkles on a white plate and a fork cutting off a slice with more cake behind the plate
    Pin image with text: One slice of birthday cake with purple icing and sprinkles on a white plate and a fork cutting off a slice with more cake behind the plate
    Pin image with text: Dairy-free, double layered birthday cake with pueple drosting, pink flowers and sprinkles with one slice cut out

    Light and soft, this dairy and gluten-free birthday cake is the perfect way to celebrate! Made without wheat ingredients but with lots of flavor, this gluten-free vanilla cake is easy to make and can be topped with extra sprinkles for added color.

    "This was really good! Has a mild honey flavor. Made as cupcakes and baked for less time than I would a cake. Also added sprinkles in the batter. Yum! Husband approved, as well! A keeper"

    - J
    Dairy-free birthday cake with purple icing and pink icing flowers and covered in sprinkles on a cake turntable

    Celebration cakes can be tricky when you’re avoiding dairy or gluten, but they don’t have to be bland, dense, or crumbly. As a mom of three, I’ve tested a lot of healthy birthday cakes over the years, and this dairy-free, gluten-free cake is the one I keep coming back to.

    It’s fluffy, flavorful, and made with coconut flour not almond flour, but without the usual grainy texture. I’ve used it for birthday parties, baby showers, and kid-packed gatherings where allergies matter (but taste still wins).

    With two layers, a simple dairy-free frosting, and colorful sprinkles, this dairy-free birthday cake is easy to make and kid-approved. In fact, I've made this exact cake for four of my daughters' birthdays and every time their faces light up.

    Why You'll Love It

    Flavor: The birthday cake is moist, light, and tender, with a rich vanilla flavor. Its texture is almost light, unlike many coconut flour recipes.

    Allergy-friendly: The vanilla cake as written, is dairy-free and gluten-free, but you can also make it paleo-approved depending on your choice of icing.

    Versatile: There are lots of easy ways to adapt the flavor, icing, and toppings on the birthday cake to suit any occasion.

    Ingredients You’ll Need

    Below is a quick shot of the ingredients you need to make the gluten-free, dairy-free birthday cake. There aren't many, which means you probably already have most of them in your gluten-free pantry. Peekat the image as well as some tips and substitutions.

    Applesauce: This is what helps keep the dairy-free vanilla cake light instead of dense, which can often happen with coconut flour. If you don't have any on hand, you should be able to use yogurt here.

    Olive oil: You can use olive oil or avocado oil for this recipe. However, coconut oil will change the texture and shouldn’t be substituted.

    Honey: The gluten-free vanilla cake is naturally sweetened with honey! This makes the cake itself sweet but not too sweet. That way, you can adjust the flavor a bit based on the icing.

    Dairy-free icing: The recipe uses a vegan cashew-based butter I get locally for the icing. However, any dairy-free butter should work. Just know that a nut-based butter will cause the icing to melt quicker than a traditional, lactose-free one.

    How to make the birthday cake paleo: The only non-paleo part of the birthday cake is the icing. To make the cake paleo-approved, use homemade paleo, powdered sugar instead.

    Ingredients like honey, sugar, coconut flour eggs and more in measuring cups around a cake pan with all ingredients labeled

    Natural Coloring Options

    While traditional food dye will work, the following natural options work just as well:

    • Pink – beet crystals or freeze-dried strawberries
    • Blue – spirulina
    • Green – Chlorella
    • Purple – freeze-dried blueberries

    It’s important to note that these “dyes” will change the flavor of the dairy-free icing slightly. Thus, only add the tiniest bit (¼ tsp) to get started.

    As for cake toppings, add a burst of color with fresh berries, sprinkles, or piped frosting flowers, perfect for birthday personalization!

    Important Tips To Know Before You Bake

    Since coconut flour absorbs so much liquid, I recommend halving the recipe and mixing each layer in its own bowl. This keeps the texture light, otherwise, the batter can turn dense and uneven if split after mixing.

    Because the cake is soft, chill the layers for an hour before icing to prevent tearing. If using multiple icing colors, whip the frosting first, then divide and color.

    For smooth piping, use the icing right after whipping. If it firms up in the fridge, it won’t pipe well. Runny frosting? Add more icing sugar or decorate in batches, chilling the cake between layers.

    One slice of birthday cake with purple icing and sprinkles on a white plate and a fork cutting off a slice with more cake behind the plate

    Flavor Variations

    Below are a few easy ways to adjust the taste of the dairy-free birthday cake.

    Chocolate: Make a chocolate base by adding 2 tablespoons of cocoa powder to the mix.

    Mix-ins: You can swirl in chocolate chips, chopped pecans, or sprinkles to the raw batter.

    Toppings: In place of icing in the middle, try drizzling homemade caramel sauce for a gooey bite. Or top the cake with drizzled dairy-free chocolate ganache. Dairy-free cream cheese frosting or even protein buttercream can be fun, too.

    How To Make The Dairy-Free Birthday Cake

    This gluten-free cake comes together very easily- one of the perks for busy moms!

    Ingredients like honey, sugar, coconut flour eggs and more in measuring cups around a cake pan
    Step 1: Portion out the ingredients for one cake (so halve the recipe).
    Raw cake batter being poured into a cake pan
    Step 2: Mix the cake batter together and let it sit before pouring it into the pan. Then, repeat step one and mix together the second layer of the cake and pour it. Bake until cooked through.
    Blue mixing bowl with dairy-free butter in it and icing sugar being poured in with electric beaters beside it
    Step 3: While the cakes are cooling in the fridge, whisk together the icing until fluffy and add any coloring
    you need to.
    Small dairy-free cake on a turntable being iced purple with an icing spatula
    Step 4: Use an icing spatula to spread the icing onto the first cake.
    Dairy-free vanilla cake with purple icing and pink flowers being piped on top
    Step 5: Add the second cake on top, finish off the icing, and pipe decorations onto the cakes.

    How To Store It

    Prepping in advance: The cake is iced best when it’s had time to cool fully. Thus, it can be stored in the fridge for a day or two before adding the frosting.

    However, make sure the vanilla birthday cake has had time to cool fully before wrapping it in plastic wrap and putting it in the fridge. Otherwise, moisture could get in and it would alter the texture/making the cake soggy.

    Storing leftovers: Once the cake is fully finished, it can be stored in the fridge until ready to eat! Simply let it sit out 3-5 minutes before eating. The cake will stay fresh for 5-7 days.

    Freezing the birthday cake: The vanilla cake can be stored unfrosted in the freezer for up to a month. Make sure to wrap each layer individually in plastic wrap before placing it into a freezer bag. When you need it, let it thaw in the fridge overnight before icing it.

    How To Frost A Double-Layer Cake

    If you're new to cake decorating (like I was!), use these easy steps to ice your cake. I invested in this cheap cake decorating kit, and it helped immensely.

    1. Add the first layer to your turntable and spread icing on top, this will be the filling, so make it as thick or thin as you like.
    2. Place the second cake on top and repeat, covering the top with icing while rotating the turntable.
    3. Frost the sides using a smaller spatula to smooth icing evenly around the cake.
    4. Decorate by piping flowers along the seam between the layers and on top using a piping bag and your preferred tip.
    Dairy-free birthday cake with purple icing and pink icing flowers and covered in sprinkles on a cake turntable

    FAQs

    What can I use in place of arrowroot powder in a gluten-free vanilla cake?

    You can easily substitute cornstarch for arrowroot powder in a dairy-free, gluten-free cake. Both ingredients help thicken the liquid: dry ingredient ratio, and will yield the same texture.

    Can I make this cake vegan?

    Unfortunately, no. When baking with coconut flour, you need eggs to both bind it and create a light texture. An egg substitute won't work.

    Can I use gluten-free baking flour for coconut flour?

    These flours are not interchangeable, so no. Gluten-free flour absorbs liquid much more than coconut flour, so the texture would be drastically altered.

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    A slice of vanilla birthday cake with purple icing and sprinkles on a white plate with a fork beside it and more cake on a turntable behind it

    Dairy-Free Vanilla Birthday Cake

    Shelby Stover
    This dairy-free, gluten-free birthday cake is a healthy twist on a classic recipe. Naturally light it can be topped with dye-free icing and your choice of decorative sprinkles!
    5 from 6 votes
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    Prep Time 10 minutes mins
    Cook Time 33 minutes mins
    Cooling time 1 hour hr
    Total Time 45 minutes mins
    Course Dessert
    Cuisine American
    Servings 12
    Calories 565 kcal

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    Equipment

    • 1 Cake Decorating Kit
    • 2 8 Inch Cake Pan

    Ingredients
      

    For the birthday cake

    • 1 cup Unsweetened applesauce
    • 8 eggs
    • 1 cup olive oil
    • 6 tbs honey
    • 2 teaspoon vanilla extract
    • 1 cup coconut flour
    • ½ cup arrowroot powder
    • 4 teaspoon baking powder
    • ½ teaspoon sea salt
    • ½ cup cane sugar

    For the dairy-free frosting

    • 1 cup vegan butter
    • 3 cups icing sugar
    • 1-3 teaspoon color optional

    Instructions
     

    • Preheat the oven to 350 degrees Fahrenheit.
    • Halve the cake ingredients and portion them out (you need to mix the layers separately, see notes).
    • Mix together the dry ingredients in a large bowl. In a separate bowl, whisk the eggs, oil, honey, and vanilla extract ingredients until combined.
    • Add wet to dry. Grease two cake pans. Pour the cake batter into one of the cake pans and let sit while you repeat the steps above for the second cake.
    • Once both cake pans are full, let sit for 5 minutes to absorb.
    • Bake the cakes for 30-33 minutes keeping an eye on them in the last few minutes. They should be golden on top and VERY soft to the touch.
    • Remove from the oven and let the cakes cool fully (for roughly one hour) in the fridge in their pans before using a silicone spatula to remove them. Take care as they're delicate.
    • Once removed from the pans, pop the dairy-free vanilla cakes into the fridge until ready to ice.
    • Use an electric mixer to whip together the icing ingredients until fluffy.
    • Remove the cakes from the fridge and begin icing and decorating as you prefer.

    Notes

      • This dairy-free birthday cake is double layered. This means two cakes! However, because coconut flour absorbs so much, I find it better to make the cakes separately (halve and mix the ingredients separately) then pour the batter into two cake pans (see notes in blog post for more information).
      • This vanilla birthday cake uses two 8 inch circular cake pans and yields roughly 10-12 servings.
      • The cake is soft and therefore a bit delicate. It’s better to ice it after having it in the fridge for at least an hour, otherwise, you risk tearing it a bit.
      • The icing is best pipped immediately after whipping. If you place it in the fridge for longer than five minutes it tends to harden and won't easily come through the piping bag.
      • If you plan to use multiple icing colors, before adding the color, whip the ingredients and separate the icing into batches to color individually.
      • While the amount of frosting in the recipe card is great if you're just icing the gluten-free cake, if you want to truly decorate it, you may want to make 1.5x the batch.
    Disclaimer:

    Nutrition values are estimates only, using online calculators. Please verify using your own data"

    Nutrition

    Calories: 565kcalCarbohydrates: 60gProtein: 5gFat: 34gSaturated Fat: 8gPolyunsaturated Fat: 6gMonounsaturated Fat: 19gTrans Fat: 1gCholesterol: 109mgSodium: 285mgPotassium: 203mgFiber: 4gSugar: 49gVitamin A: 884IUVitamin C: 1mgCalcium: 78mgIron: 1mg
    Have You Tried This Recipe?Please leave a star rating and comment below. Mention @fitasamamabear or tag #fitasamamabear!

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    Comments

    1. Sherry says

      February 03, 2022 at 9:14 pm

      5 stars
      A great recipe for a dairy free cake. Easy to make and great tasting! Love this recipe!!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 07, 2022 at 11:20 pm

        Easy is crucial for my baking skills hehe

        Reply
    2. Donna says

      February 02, 2022 at 3:00 am

      5 stars
      I just made this for my nephew with allergies and it was very well received! Definitely a keeper.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:38 am

        So happy he loved it!

        Reply
    3. Greta says

      February 02, 2022 at 1:27 am

      Super delicious and easy to make. Thanks for sharing the recipe!

      Reply
    4. Jennifer says

      February 01, 2022 at 5:26 pm

      5 stars
      This really is the perfect cake. So moist and delicious, and my whole family loved it!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:35 am

        It's the best that it's a hit with regular dairy, gluten, sugar-loving people too!

        Reply
    5. Allyssa says

      February 01, 2022 at 11:32 am

      5 stars
      Thank you so much for sharing this amazing dairy free cake recipe! Will surely have this again! It's really easy to make and it tasted so delicious! Highly recommended!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:35 am

        So glad you loved it!

        Reply
    6. Tessa says

      January 31, 2022 at 3:33 pm

      This looks so delicious - I can't wait to try it! We're really trying to step away from too much grain use, so I love these alternative flour recipes that actually taste great.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:34 am

        Yay! Sometimes it's hard reducing grains because we're so used to them so it's nice having yummy things on hand.

        Reply
        • J says

          August 24, 2023 at 10:33 pm

          5 stars
          This was really good! Has a mild honey flavor. Made as cupcakes and baked for less time than I would a cake. Also added sprinkles in the batter. Yum! Husband approved, as well! A keeper

          Reply
          • fitasamamabear says

            August 26, 2023 at 8:28 am

            Mm sprinkles make everything better!

            Reply
    7. Susan says

      January 31, 2022 at 3:10 pm

      So nice to be able to celebrate even with food sensitivities!!!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:33 am

        Right?!

        Reply
    8. Glenda says

      January 31, 2022 at 1:36 pm

      5 stars
      Used this for my mother-in-laws birthday. It was a huge hit with the family! Thanks for sharing!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 03, 2022 at 12:32 am

        Yay! So happy to hear you liked it!

        Reply
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