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    Home » Fitness Tips For Moms

    5 Non Scale Fitness Goals

    Modified: Apr 10, 2025 · by Shelby Stover · This post may contain affiliate links · 18 Comments

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    Skip the mindset of being smaller and instead focus on some of these non-scale fitness goals. Start prioritizing your health, strength, and well-being without making weight loss the sole focus.

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    As a Certified Strength & Conditioning Specialist, it's not often that people come to me looking to learn anything but how to lose weight.

    As a mom myself, we're conditioned that we need to go to the gym to suffer through workouts, to be smaller, and to punish our bodies for something we ate.

    And yet, that is so far from the truth.

    Physical activity is still crucial, even when you have your ideal body.

    Likewise, in my personal experience I've found that when women focus on goals outside of losing weight, all the other stuff tends to fall into place.

    Things like:

    • less back pain
    • an increase in strength
    • more confidence
    • high energy
    • less stress and anxiety
    • more control
    • reducing high blood pressure
    • health improvements (heart health, disease risk etc)
    • and yes, weight loss

    So, if you're at a healthy weight or feel you need a mental slap to shift your focus, this post is for you!

    Start celebrating and striving for the non-scale victories.

    Below are 5 of the best, most fun, fitness goals that have nothing to do with how to lose weight.

    Strength & Performance Goals

    Strength goals are my all-time favorite goals and what I strive for with every one of my in-person and SMASH workout clients.

    The benefits of strength training are numerous and will improve every area of your life- though the first step in any goal is learning how to glow up mentally and change your mindset.

    When you focus on getting stronger, a lot of things happen:

    • You look better
    • You feel better
    • Daily tasks become easy
    • You become somewhat cocky
    • You can help friends move and not be embarrassed

    Honestly, there are a lot of perks but being strong freaking rocks. Learn to start resistance training and slowly work your way in.

    You can work towards goals of lifting a certain amount of weight or performing a certain amount of repetitions.

    Regardless, being strong is FUN.

    Likewise, don't fret about "getting too big". Strength training doesn't work that way.

    In fact, it's lifting weights that give a "toned" look that most women strive for. Get started with a few of the resources below:

    • Strength training for women
    • How to start working out when you're brand new
    • Strength training for beginners, the tips you need

    Endurance Goals

    Endurance goals are always a fun challenge and it's never to late tp start!

    You can either strive for traditional endurance goals like running, or being able to do an exercise for a certain amount of time or repetitions.

    I was never a runner personally until my first pregnancy and I can't stress enough that learning to run did not come naturally (learn about how to begin running when you're not naturally a runner))

    But years later, it's one of my favorite ways tp push myself.

    Setting endurance goals took a lot of mental strength and I'm stronger because of it (learn how to challenge yourself and achieve running goals).

    Whether it’s running or a certain number of repetitions of an exercise, pick an endurance goal and try to smash it!

    Bodyweight Training (Calisthenics)

    It’s no secret that many people are unable to do exercises like basic push-ups, chin-ups, single-leg squats. All of these are basic skills and yet we’ve forgotten how to do them.

    So, work at them. 

    Body weight performance goals are a great form of gym motivation but they also have the perk of being able to work on them almost anywhere.

    Some great calisthenics goals are:

    • learn to do a pull up (here are some great tips for beginners)
    • take it further by working on ring dips or muscle ups
    • learn to do a handstand and hold it for time (check out beginner handstand tips)
    • Learning to do a push up when you're a beginner
    • Pistol squats

    Will it take time? Yes. Effort? Yes. But you’ll feel like a badass when you succeed.

    Unfortunately, many people think you need to be super lean or fit to do these activities. But remember, everyone starts somewhere! Take note of where you're at and scale up from there.

    Bodyweight goals are impressive don’t overlook them.

    Daily Task Goals

    Maybe your goal isn’t performance-based. Sometimes, simply improving the things you can do daily is a huge goal:

    • being able to play tag with your kids without getting winded
    • carrying an extra bag of groceries
    • playing recreational sports

    Don’t overlook that maintaining some sort of workout schedule helps you do the things you love.

    Below are a few low-impact, beginner workouts to get you started with general strength.

    • No equipment circuit workout
    • Beginner kettlebell workout
    • Resistance band workouts for beginners

    Mobility & Flexibility

    Remaining mobile as you age is crucial if you want to keep doing the things you love! So why not set some mobility or flexibility goals?

    Working towards more flexible hip flexors or quads, straddle splits, or being able to reach overhead are all non-weight loss fitness goals.

    All of which will still require dedication and moving your body.

    Check out some follow-along hip mobility videos on my YouTube channel!

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    Consistency

    Instead of focusing on how to lose weight, why not focus on just staying consistent to any routine you enjoy?

    Consistency will always produce results so take the focus off the big stuff and start mapping out a plan and making consistency the goal.

    This can include any of the following:

    • Showing up for a workout three times per week
    • Adding 5 minute workouts into your day every day
    • Drinking 2L of water each day
    • Healthy eating habits
    • Eating over 100 grams of protein per day (learn how to do that in this Protein Power Snacks Ebook)

    Non-Scale Victories

    Remember, there's more to life than weight loss.

    In fact, maintaining an active lifestyle or workout schedule helps so much that its important to measure progress and celebrate the other stuff that comes along on your fitness journey.

    • can you pick up your kids no?
    • does your back still hurt?
    • are you sleeping better?
    • do you find you're less stressed?
    • do you enjoy your days?
    • is your energy better?
    • can you move your hips and shoulders through a full range of motion?

    The scale isn't the only way to track progress. It's just the most talked about. non-weight loss goals ultimately still help you live a healthier life.

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    Comments

    1. Sierra says

      July 19, 2018 at 4:08 am

      This post was so inspiring! I am still trying to master body weight basics ha ha! This post had some awesome goals.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        July 19, 2018 at 2:08 pm

        So glad I could give you a bit of inspiration! Bodyweight training is HARD lol there's lots I still want to master! But it makes it fun to have something to work for!

        Reply
    2. Carol Little R.H. @studiobotanica says

      May 30, 2018 at 1:58 am

      Great post! Here's another one:
      Exercise stimulates/moves our lymphatic system which boosts immune system function!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:08 pm

        Yes yes yes!! It literally, keeps you healthy due to circulation- and from an expecting perspective this makes it great too!

        Reply
    3. Jessica Levinson says

      May 30, 2018 at 12:18 am

      So many great goals you've listed here! Love that they put the focus on something else besides weight loss! Something we all need to remember!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:07 pm

        Weight loss is definitely not the only avenue! There's so much more to fitness and so many more enjoyable goals.

        Reply
    4. Rachel says

      May 29, 2018 at 6:26 pm

      So true that you feel like a badass when you finally succeed at something you've been working at =) Love that feeling... Thanks for the motivation!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:07 pm

        Haha yes! It's an addictive feeling.

        Reply
    5. Megan Stevens says

      May 29, 2018 at 3:22 pm

      Great post with great points. I love how joyfully empowering it is to get stronger. We also find it bonding for our whole family, because we love doing fitness stuff together. We'll have 30 day challenges etc that are fun.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:07 pm

        Ahh I love that you're a #fitfam! Makes my day! Strength gets addicting lol I love knowing I can do so many things because I'm strong 😀

        Reply
    6. Daniela says

      May 29, 2018 at 1:50 pm

      I love this! My goals are to be fit and healthy and have strong bones and be able to chase after my kids. It's so important to remember that weight loss isn't everything! Thanks for this wonderful post.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:05 pm

        Thank you Daniela! My goals are strength and keeping up with kiddos too. I am at my ideal weight and I still work out because those goals are far more important.

        Reply
    7. Lindsey Dietz says

      May 29, 2018 at 1:39 pm

      This is so important. It's crucial to remember that fitness and weight loss are NOT the same thing!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 31, 2018 at 12:05 pm

        Yes! They are not interchangeable and fitness is SO MUCH more.

        Reply
    8. Amy says

      May 28, 2018 at 9:20 pm

      The gym & weight loss industry is so focussed on quick fixes. What a great article, I love these goals and it's a great reminder of the positive sides of exercise that truly benefit us.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 28, 2018 at 10:47 pm

        Thanks Amy! It's true, the industry picked one thing and latched on. Which sucks because there so many other perks and reasons to exercise! it's not quick but it's fun to aim for goals!

        Reply
    9. Kristy, Life-n-Reflection says

      May 27, 2018 at 1:23 pm

      Shelby this is such a sad truth. So many of us watch the scale and give up when it doesn't move fast enough in the direction we want. Not even considering all the health benefits of being active.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        May 27, 2018 at 5:49 pm

        Yes! There are so many other perks and reasons to stay active. Not just being smaller.

        Reply

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