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    Home » Fitness Tips For Busy Moms

    How To Engage Glutes In Just 3 Steps

    Modified: Aug 19, 2025 · by Shelby Stover · This post may contain affiliate links · 10 Comments

    Woman in a black sports bra and black tights in a half kneeling position with text over top about engaging glutes

    Can’t feel your glutes working? Here’s hHow To Engage Glutes properly so you stop relying on your lower back and start seeing real strength results.

    Three images of a woman in black tights and sports bra in various positions to activate the glutes with text between the images.

    Activating your glutes means getting your glute muscles to properly “turn on” and do the work during an exercise instead of letting other muscles take over.

    While many people focus on glutes for aesthetics, they’re also key for performance and injury prevention (learn more about glute exercise benefits). The problem? Most people don’t actually know how to use them.

    When glutes aren’t firing properly, it often leads to tight hamstrings and low back pain.

    Learn to engage them first, then build strength with something like my Glute Guide or dive into how to grow glutes to see real results.

    Jump To
    • What Are The Gluteal Muscles?
    • Why You Can't Feel Your Glutes
    • How Do You Know If You Have Weak Glutes?
    • 3 Drills To Learn To Engage Glutes
    • Where Should You Feel Glute Activation?
    • Glute Activation Circuit
    • More Glute Resources You’ll Love
    • Glute Activation FAQs

    What Are The Gluteal Muscles?

    The glutes are a series of three muscles that make up the buttocks.

    Broken down, these muscles are the gluteus maximus (the largest part of your bum), the gluteus minimus (on your outer hip), and the gluteus medius (just above the hip and is over top of the minimus).

    Learn more about the gluteal muscles and what exactly they do in my blog post: glute training at home

    Why You Can't Feel Your Glutes

    Like anything, there are multiple factors that go into any weak muscle or muscle imbalance. A few common reasons are:

    • Too much reliance on quads or lower back.
    • Poor posture
    • Not practicing mind muscle connection
    • Tweaking stance

    Most commonly people simply don’t know how to engage their glutes (or when they should). They’ve never spent the time to learn to engage them and so the glutes don’t function.

    Likewise, sometimes it stems from hip mobility. Getting movement into the hips with hip mobility drills and glute stretches can help a ton.

    How Do You Know If You Have Weak Glutes?

    Below are two ways to determine if your glute muscles are lacking.

    Test One

    Perform a single-leg glute bridge:

    1. Lay on the floor with your knees bent and a feet a few inches out from your bum.
    2. Raise one leg up off the floor.
    3. Push through the foot, raise the hips off the floor and hold.

    Do you feel your bum muscle working? Or do you feel your hamstring (back of the leg). Do you feel your low back?

    If you feel this in your hamstring or low back, your glutes aren’t doing their job.

    Test Two

    When standing naturally, do you find you have a massive low back arch? Low back pain? Pain when your carry a baby?

    If your low back is constantly arched and “achy” this is a good sign that the glutes are weak and not pulling your pelvic into a stable, neutral position.

    Woman in a black sports bra and black tights in a half kneeling position with text over top about engaging glutes

    3 Drills To Learn To Engage Glutes

    Glute activation exercises (like a glute bridge) are wonderful. However, if you don’t know what it feels like when your glutes are engaged, going through the motions of the activation exercises won’t benefit you.

    Instead, use the three exercises below to learn how to engage your glutes.

    Lying Pelvic Tilt

    This is actually part glute exercise and part deep core exercise. It’s one of the staples when it comes to postpartum diastasis exercises!

    1. Lay on the floor with your knees bent and your feet a few inches out from your bum.
    2. Arch your back so that your low back raises off the floor.
    3. Then, without lifting your head, tuck your ribs down toward your hips so that your low back comes to lay on the floor.
    4. Your bum shouldn’t come up off the ground but it should feel engaged.

    If you’re struggling with this or want to vary it, try it from a standing position. Stand upright, arch your back, then think of “tucking your tail” under your bum and squeezing.

    This is a posterior pelvic tilt and it’s a crucial glute activation exercise.

    Two images of a woman in a sports bra and skort lying on a yoga mat with her hand on her tummy and arrows and text about how to pelvic tilt

    Sitting Bum Squeezes

    The fun part about the glutes is that they actually change shape when they’re engaged! This means that you can both see and feel them change.

    1. Sit upright on a bench, chair, or harder table.
    2. Squeeze your bum.
    3. You should feel your body move upwards a little bit. And if you place your hands on your glutes you’ll feel them change shape and harden.
    4. Release the squeeze and try a few more.
    5. Then, try to alternate, squeezing one glute and then the other.
    6. Get used to the feeling.
    Woman in black pants and sports bra sitting on a workout bench with her hands on her hips

    Half Kneeling Activation

    One of the functions of the gluteal muscles is to stabilize the pelvis in multiple positions and through movement.

    1. Come into a half-kneeling position with your left knee on the ground and right foot on the floor.
    2. Keep the torso tall.
    3. If you need to, place a hand on the left glute muscle.
    4. Squeeze the left glute muscle and make sure it’s firing.
    5. Then, try to engage the glute as you move the arms up and overhead.
    6. Keep doing this until it feels natural to engage the glute and repeat on the other side (you may notice some weakness!).

    A good rule of thumb for glute engagement during exercise is that if you don’t feel your bum muscles working after 2-3 exercises, they’re not.

    Woman in sports bra and black tights in a half kneeling position with hands on hips and arrows with form tips

    Where Should You Feel Glute Activation?

    You should feel glute activation in the back of your hips and upper glutes, with a slight burn or tension. You should not feel it in your lower back or quads, if you do, your glutes aren’t fully doing the work.

    Glute Activation Circuit

    Once you’ve mastered how glute activation should feel, start using these glute activation exercises in your workouts to strengthen them and then opt for something like glute HIIT workout or a 10-minute banded glute workout to keep progressing your glute training.

    Need something quick to get the glutes firing? Use this glute activation circuit 2-3 times per week!

    Feet elevated glute bridgex12
    Banded squatsx12
    Banded clamsx12/side
    Sumo walksx30 seconds
    Rest 20 secondsx3 sets

    More Glute Resources You’ll Love

    Want a simple plan to actually build your glutes? My Glute Guide For Moms shows you exactly what to do at home, with ready-for-you workouts.

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    Glute Activation FAQs

    How do I know if my glutes are activated?

    Because the gluteal muscles change shape when they’re engaged, you should be able to physically feel when they’re engaged. Along with that, you should be able to internally feel the muscle working after a few repetitions of an exercise.

    Why can’t I engage my glutes?

    A lot of reasons come into play when people struggle with glute engagement. Much of the time, people just don’t know how to activate their glutes. However, if you have chronically tight glutes it could be that your hamstrings and low back are doing their job, and that needs to be fixed. Likewise, tight hips will reduce glute engagement (especially in hip extension), which can result from too much sitting.

    How often should you do glute activation exercises?

    Glute activation exercises can be done a few times a week, either as a full glute workout or as warm-up drills before you strength train.

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    Comments

    1. Padma says

      March 19, 2024 at 3:11 pm

      Enjoyed reading this. Thank you for the detailed article. This took me back to my days of strength training.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        March 22, 2024 at 7:51 am

        Happy to help!

        Reply
    2. Liz says

      March 14, 2024 at 12:06 pm

      Loved these tips! I wanted to make sure I was working out as efficiently as I can and this was helpful!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        March 15, 2024 at 8:46 am

        Yay!

        Reply
    3. Khrys says

      February 19, 2024 at 9:48 am

      I've been planning on getting in shape this year, and I'm so glad I found your content! The instructions are very clear and I appreciate the focus on home workouts because I'm not comfortable visiting the gym yet. So, thank you!

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 23, 2024 at 7:50 am

        So happy you enjoy the information!

        Reply
    4. Ginny says

      February 01, 2024 at 1:01 pm

      I love all your tips, and I tried the exercises for the glutes. I'm so out of shape I only did half, and I'm going to start working on adding more. I'm glad there is something I can easily do at home and not have to join a gym.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        February 06, 2024 at 7:42 am

        Half is still a win. All movement matters and adds up so keep rocking it!

        Reply
    5. Catherine says

      September 26, 2023 at 2:22 pm

      Thanks for sharing. These burn! That must mean I'm working something. I've had a weak lower back for ages -- I'm going to try and stick with your glute activation circuit to see if it helps.

      Reply
      • fitasamamabear says

        September 26, 2023 at 2:57 pm

        Ohh they'll totally help with low back issues, I'm SO excited for you!

        Reply

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